In a powerful statement, Tobore Oborevwori, the wife of the Delta State Governor, shines a light on a pressing issue: the alarming rise of digital abuse against women and girls. She demands immediate action, urging society to break free from the chains of silence that allow abusers to flourish.
The Silent Epidemic:
Oborevwori, also the founder of the You Matter Charity Foundation, launched the 2025 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-based Violence campaign in Asaba, with a theme that hits home: "Unite! End Digital Violence Against All Women and Girls." She emphasized the escalating dangers lurking in the digital realm, where countless women and girls face violence and abuse, often unnoticed and unreported.
Breaking the Silence:
The Governor's wife passionately advocated for a united front against this silent epidemic. She implored communities, institutions, and families to shatter the culture of silence that empowers abusers, both online and in the physical world. But here's where it gets controversial—she pointed out that even some women defend perpetrators, adding a layer of complexity to the issue.
A Tragic Reminder:
Oborevwori referenced the heart-wrenching story of Ochanya, a victim of repeated abuse by her aunt's husband and son, while her guardian shockingly protected the abusers. This case serves as a stark reminder of the horrors endured by many victims in silence. She declared, "This injustice will no longer be tolerated." As a deaconess, her words carry a profound moral weight.
A Collective Responsibility:
Oborevwori stressed that protecting women and girls is a shared duty, emphasizing that security agencies can only intervene when cases are reported. She pledged to work with various stakeholders, including ministries, law enforcement, civil society, and faith-based organizations, to combat gender-based violence. This collaborative approach is crucial to making a meaningful impact.
A Call to Action:
The Commissioner for Women Affairs, Pat Ajudua, echoed the sentiment, stating that women across Delta State are ready to take a stand. She sought approval to initiate the campaign, marking a significant step towards change. And this is the part most people miss—how can we ensure that victims feel safe to speak up and that their voices are heard? What role can technology play in both preventing and addressing digital abuse?
The fight against digital abuse is a complex and urgent matter, sparking essential conversations about societal norms, justice, and the power of collective action. What steps do you think are necessary to address this issue effectively? Share your thoughts and let's continue the dialogue.
